Party!!!

Today was loads of fun!! We played with the kids all afternoon after school, and with both my kids and the Thai kids relaxing now into us being a part of their day, the play is becoming much more natural and relaxed! The boys are loving Paddy because he's wrestles and chases them, and they are very cheeky in the way they chase him and goad him into chasing them back! We had a party tonight because Mae Thiew and Sister leave tomorrow for the hill tribes up north. A Thai style BBQ prepared again by Wutt! And the kids performed dances for us, and Nat played his guitar too! It was all just beautiful!! I also found out that this weekend is the first time that both Sister and Mae Thiew have left the orphanage to go away at the same time!! Sister has been ensuring that everything is ready and organised. She has been very focused on the preparation and does seem a little stressed about leaving them all! But she does keep saying to me that she is very glad we come at this time so she feels better about leaving them because we here to help!! So given her level of stress, you can imagine my surprise when she agreed that I can take ALL the kids to an elephant camp about 140kms away!!! We will do it on Sunday, and 5 staff will come with me to help! Even the babies are coming! I can't wait, what a privilege to be trusted with their children, and what fun we are all going to have!!!

The children thanked us tonight by giving us blessings and tying friendship bands around our wrists! So we all now have many beautiful white bands around our wrists that are full of live and good wishes for our future. Mae Thiew leaves tomorrow for the hill tribes, so saying goodbye was very hard. We both had tears in our eyes, and she told me she loves me many times! She even told me that she stayed strong and healthy to see me again! I have promised her that we will come back again and again, and that we'll bring more friends to help support her beautiful children! I told her that she is the most amazing woman that I have ever met! How special to once again share time with her and to part with tears in our eyes! I am truly blessed to have met her, and am so very glad that my kids had the opportunity to meet such a beautiful person. xox

Market day!

When we arrived at the orphanage today Sister asked us if we'd like to accompany her to the market. So we all piled into the car and drove into the market for a very special experience! Sister said that she wanted to show us how they live and going to the market is one aspect that she was keen to show us! She kept asking my kids "different to Australia, yes?". And yes it is very different. Sister bought us many foods to try, and by the end of the trip we were so full!! I can't make all the things that she bought us because there were so many and she was so fast at buying them and getting us to try them! The kids were great and tried most things! We have a huge bag full of sweet things to bring back to our hotel that we couldn't eat! My favourite was a dessert that we ate after dinner. It was a coconut based custard baked in a pumpkin! Very delicious! After the market we went back to the orphanage and when the kids arrived home from school we played until dinner time! Patrick has made friends with Tong who follows him around everywhere and likes to play and wrestle! Gracie played with the babies again, and loves to make them laugh! Laura and I played with the other kids blowing bubbles for them and chatting to the teenagers. After another beautiful dinner cooked by Kuhn Wutt we gave more English lessons. This time we took some chalk and the kids wrote numbers and did maths on the path! One very clever little boy wrote the numbers all the way to 100!

Today was a very special day for me for another reason too. On Friday Mae Thiew and Sister along with most of the staff are heading north to the hill tribes. They will be staying up there for a week. The tribes up there ate very poor and Mae Thiew has packed her car full of things to take up for the children up there! Whilst Homehug doesn't have much, they said that the children up there have even less, including no electricity so they wil do what they can for them! What very special people we are visiting with here to give to others when they themselves have so little! Mae Thiew and Sister are very grateful to me for being here at this time as there will be very few staff here over the weekend to look after the children at Homehug. Sister asked me yesterday could I plan the activities and schedule for the kids for Saturday and Sunday! She said that she was giving me get children for the weekend!! How very special, exciting and humbling that they would trust me to do this! They do not trust their children to others very easily, so I feel so very privileged! So now I have to write a schedule for two whole days, and show it to sister before they leave. She runs a very tight ship here, so I hope my planning and activities are up to scratch! I will show her today for approval, fingers crossed she approves!! xox

Mae Thiew

We arrived at Homehug this afternoon to a very excited Mae Thiew! It was so great to see her again, and she kept hugging me and saying "I miss you"! She is such an amazingly strong woman, yet so gentle, loving and caring that I just feel so privileged to be with her! We hugged and chatted for a while, and then it was time to play!! The kids got home from school looking beautiful in their white shirts and school uniforms, they changed, did their chores and then came out to play! We have a parachute for them and spent the afternoon showing them how to use it! We played cat and mouse,but their favourite was lying on their backs under it while we lifted it up and down over them! The littlies loved the feel of it over them, and I think the wind it created was a welcomed relief to the heat! It is so hot over here, just so humid and sticky we are always wet! Gracie loved the babies and kept asking to go in and play with them. Paddy played poison ball with the boys and loved it! It was so great to see him relax into life at the orphanage, make friends and find the confidence to join in their games. He is really looking forward to getting back there tomorrow, as are we all!! I think what helped him relax was that he realised we didn't need to be able to communicate with words to understand each other. Dinner was cooked by my buddy Kuhn Wutt and was amazing! We all agreed it was the best meal we've had since we arrived in Thailand! Perhaps our emotions have something to do with it, but what an amazing cook you are Kuhn Wutt! After dinner we gave the kids English lessons. Interesting, given that I can't speak Thai!! But great none the less, and Laura was amazing helping me!! Her ability to adapt and jump in and give everything a go continues to make me so very proud!!

Homehug!!

We've had another big day of traveling today, with all three kids asleep tonight by 7pm!! Flew from Bangkok to Ubon Ratchathani, hired a car and I drove the 100kms to Yasothon. Despite directions from Peter, I still drove past the orphanage a zillion times before I worked out I could pull up a picture on my iPhone and show it to someone who could point me in the right direction!! Did the same for the hotel, pulled up the website on my phone and showed it to some locals who gave me directions!! Clearly you dOnt need to speak the same language to give or receive directions, sign language of sorts was very effective!! And a note about driving in Thailand - indicators, using lanes, speed limits and any sort of road rules are all optional!! But I figured that I just had to drive the same to blend in, and I was fine! Nothing like overtaking a car and just assuming the oncoming traffic will make a third lane and drive in the shoulder to let you through!! I don't know why they bother painting white lines at all!! So after all that we quickly checked into our hotel, then went in to see the kids! Was so good to see them again!! And Kuhn Wutt and the beautiful staff too! Mae Thiew wasn't there this afternoon, so I will see her tomorrow. Can't wait!! 😄

Elephants, tigers and monkeys!

Well today certainly pushed the kids out of their comfort zones more than ever before! What an amazing day. Tigers big and small, feeding them, washing them, walking them and playing with them! Oh, and elephant water fight - elephants 1, Mcintosh family 0!! How cool to swim with elephants, that was certainly the highlight of my day!! They threw us into the river with their trunks and spilled us off with their ears!! Very playful and very cool! Even paddy sat on their trunks and let them drop him in the river!! Laura was standing on hers and jumping in, she really loved the whole day, got in and did everything!! Gracie was a bit shy Of the elephants, but I don't blame her, at her height they must have looked huge!! Then a quick play with about 200 monkeys on the side of the road (no I'm not exaggerating!), and back to Bangkok for massages all around! Great day, happy kids, comfort zones extended, and an orphanage of kids waiting for us tomorrow! Am definately going to bed happy

Tigers, Elephants and Monkeys!

Well I certainly challenged the kids' comfort zones today! And I must say, they all rose to the challenge in different ways. Laura was in there getting her hands dirty at every opportunity, Patrick did things that he had sworn he wouldn't do including let an elephant throw him in the river with his trunk! Gracie loved the baby tigers and ate all the beautiful Thai food that our gorgeous guide gave us to try! Grace is certainly embracing the food here and giving it all a go every day! My favourite of the day was a water fight with the elephants, they were so cheeky and fun and splashed with us in the river for over an hour. Laura was standing on the backs and jumping into the river with gusto! On the way home we stopped to feed anout 200 very cheeky monkeys in the jungle! The breakfast with the monks was also a real highlight as thee kids got to see how peaceful, respectful, calm and reverent they are. Our tour guide Lilly, was so gorgeous! We had her all to ourselves all day and she foted over us so protectively. To top off the day we all had an hour long foot massage, which was also another first for the kids! The women fussed over the girls and giggled at Patrick. They loved Gracies hair and even brushed it for her! Early to bed as we have been up since 3.30am!! Tomorrow we head to Yasothon!! Good night all xox




rive

We have arrived!

Could there be a worse scenario for a woman traveling with three kids than being told there will be nI inflight entertainment on today's 10 hour flight! Yep, you can imagine my look of horror! But, to be honest the kids took it really well, and apart from my hands being squeezed black and blue on take off and landing, the trip was really ok. Very long, and didn't arrived into Bangkok until 3am our time, it was a long day! But in true Mcintosh kids style, everyone was awake by 6 and ready to go! Being their first OS trip I thought it best to ease them into it with a couple of days in Bangkok to ease into the cultural differences that await them in Yasathon. Walked around the food stalls today and saw squirrels and turtles at the park. Just sitting by the pool now enjoying some relief from the humidity. Off to the tiger temple tomorrow at 4am for breakfast with monks then an elephant trek before heading to Yasathon on Monday. Kids are super excited, especially Laura who keeps laughing and squealing in delight at all the new adventures! It's great to see things through their eyes!